> I suspect what Jaimi meant was shape up or leave the thread.
> Clear enough? You don't have to be so dam rude.
A better way of explaining it might be:
I suspect what Jaimi meant was try to be less crass and more understanding to those here who have less understanding and/or knowledge of the subject matter. Thank you for your understanding!
As far as that last part, it comes across as an example of what not to write and at the same time explaining the "why" of the statement.