I also think about the absolutely sickening things that happen to unlucky children every day, and any notion of "love from above" is dispelled.
Children don't have to be told about God: they already know
Transferring that to conduct in the real world takes developmental time, and children go through stages.
You're dogmatic fundamentalism seems to have switched 180 degrees from "God" to "rationality."
You left out Spiritual experience altogether.