When I first started gaming online six years ago, I was one of an extreme few of female gamers. Now, I am one of many female gamers who play fps games. What was originally discerned as an invasion of turf by other gamers as, instead, changed to the point where even female gamers act as league administrators. I myself was one of 2 female league administrators for a major gaming league that covered a dozen different games. Once again, the change is the "acceptability".
Yes, things seem stagnant but in a way, it is good. Mainstream is catching up. Once it's there fully, perhaps more change will occur?