I have outfitted my self as a Tao Te Ching advocate (see my new OP). I grew tired of calamity and dogma. My disease is bad enough without express condemnation from SOME Christians. I know there are benign Christians who naturally follow the LOVE path.
I also spent 15 years, intermittently, in a 12-step program. My last visit was horrific. These so-called recovered people shamed me and I will NEVER go back there, even for the benign folks who frequent those programs. That also saved me gas money and personal time to use as well.
The virtue of a highly evolved being embraces all people and things and dispels the darkness which isolates them.
Hua Hu Ching-primary lesson.