That is overbearing to say the least. I choose not to leverage anyone to the degree of inconveniencing their lives beyond their established parameters. I would admonish and suggest a change without so much insistence upon a course of action. I was never a salesman type of personality, even though I tried to sell whatever it was I had to propose. I allow for another's point of view, even if it means that I might lose the participant's interest. I just don't CARE enough to bulldoze my way into their lives. Such is the case that I might suggest a form of lifestyle, without the accolades of my instruction being one-sided to my favor. I am a diplomat, not a demanding personality. My "influence" is slight, not might.