I accept the fact that I am here to observe, learn, express and experience certain things and along the way I also do try to communicate with others when appropriate. Also, I keep on reminding myself every day that none of this is real and it helps me deal with all the deceipt, lies and corruption that is all around us in man-made "common reality"...
You then ask, when someone talks to you do you question the truth of their intentions or the content of their discussion? Or do you just accept there intentions and content?
IMHO, whatever someone else says is by definition only their "personal reality" which is unique to each person. Unfortunately, many people's personal realities are based on lies and deceipt, so one has to expect that behavior all of the time, specially nowadays!
In addition, to accept or reject (or to be influenced by!) someone else's personal reality should be an individual experience. I do tend to accept people but, fully knowing that what they are saying could be based on a foundation of lies and deceipt, with or without their conscious knowledge!
Nevertheless, I believe that I do think for myself and, as such, I do try to make up my own mind on a case by case and day by day basis..
IMHO, the best policy is to keep a very open mind and to use as much as possible one's inner-space senses (the 6th and other higher energy senses that we all have!)..
Hope that answers..