And that really complicates what folk like to express as 'soul mate'...you ever get the feeling you were a little too early or a little too late in existence to actually connect with a soul mate? Hmm...I don't know about that because I kinda think that there would have to be quite a few potential soul mates because it all comes down to what we accept about what life is, and whether we can really dive into something that doesn't mean anyone owns anyone in anything we do. We just adapt to what we involve ourselves in, and enjoy what connections offer in how we can add to something instead of detract from it.
Such is the nourishment of life, hey what...giving something scary a real go because we don't just hope for the best, but we can do more than our own best...if we get a chance to try. Kinda makes me go back to a comment once upon a time: walk down a dark street in a rough neighbourhood as though you belong, and those fearful things that hide in the shadows of our mind stay where they are hehe
Cheers for the now. I'm off to play Farmer Bob for a week