As for the fairness of this fact, we are somewhat obligated to deal with the changes that happen in the material world. That's our learning curve. I still have relationship problems with certain people in my life. It is inevitable. And I must "take it".
So, cheer up, for your problems this year will help you to manage better any oncoming problems in the future. At least you have been prepared for such contingencies. And you have informed others by your personal struggles.
The virtue of a highly evolved being embraces all people and things and dispels the darkness which isolates them.
Hua Hu Ching-primary lesson.