Did you ever have the feeling that life is just no on your side sometimes?
you pointed out a very good question which I think most of all of us have had time to time such worry toughs about.
As far as me in the past, specially during youth-young times I felt and then tought about that, specially
in some occasions which more or less matched your descriopted "events...".
Yes there are times in which you have troubles and nothing is going on the right ways as we expected.
And the truth is in such evidenced word..... as we expceted. That means and clearly show the wrong vision
(and so the concept) that the live should be as we think it have to be and so during some events or
facts we think that the life is not on our side.
The reality is that the Live is what it is and not what it should be..
Once understood and when seriously we became aware of that, then we will pay more attention and try to prevent
the "Problems" which can be easily avoided if we correctly face our daily way to act and so do.
Prevent problems looks like a silly attitude for many...... because the problems must be solved (and not prevented)...
During our life for sure we will have problems which cannot be prevented but if we seriously think about that
we will realize that such "not prevented problems" are in fact not so many.
Our culture, our way to live, our whishes to have and to want is what lead our lives, is it?
As usual such are ma weird toughs......
Nice and Bright Day
You can not solve a problem with the same kind of thinking that you used to create it.