Something to do with those who stick rigidly to evolution deciding everything. We do such and such because of survival instinct.
The traditional theory of Evolution is not a theory that "decides" or "programs" any thing. The fit for their circumstances live to reproduce and continue their family lines. That's it, it is a general theory that works.
Who is sitting in the background cheering us on? Mr/mrs/ms evolution? Mr. Happy accident? A dot called Big Bang?
Have I no say at all?
No one is sitting in the background, There is no Wizard of Oz. In a sense, the TofE does put it all on the individual to be "fit." So you have the say that you have. You seem pretty fit to me!
Again, it boils down to, that we have very little idea of who we are and why we are here.
Well, we are alive and we are here. Maybe that is the basis of free will?