I was in a 12-Step fellowship and learned several things:
Mind my own business,
Do not fall into another's "stuff",
Like yourself just as you are,
Be humble, not servile.
Respect any opinion (it just may save your life),
Care to share,
Work with what you've got,
That's a tall order, but people are doing these things.
Thankyou for your rant.
Which neither space nor time touches.