May be The Bardo Thodol (is known in the West as the Tibetan Book of the Dead) can be an help for your question ?Quote
This thread is not my intention to discuss whether or not reincarnation is true...more about how it works.
The Tibetan text describes, and is intended to guide one through, the experiences that the consciousness
has after death, in the bardo, the interval between death and the next rebirth.
You can not solve a problem with the same kind of thinking that you used to create it.